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Thea Wood's avatar

I had a groupie about 5-6 years ago. He sent me flowers, and scenes of fireplaces and candlelit dinner tables via social media. He lived in AZ, when I was still in Texas. If his photo and info were correct, he looked about half my age. His DM's were not aggressive, but instead like a high schooler trying to ask out a girl he had a crush on. After a few weeks of this, I finally wrote to him and said something along the lines of "You seem like a nice guy who is young and has a lot going for him. I'm an older married woman in another state-- don't waste your time on me. Spend it finding the right person." He never wrote me again.

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Christy's avatar

Interesting facts on stalkers, and the differences between the various kinds. Over my lifetime I have had 2 stalkers (both when I was under 35 yrs old). One of them was a little scary, following me in a car and I drove right into the Police Department before he realized where he was! I consider myself lucky.

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